Tips for Negotiating a Lakeland Parenting Plan
When parents get a divorce or separate, a parenting plan is established that dictates the rights and responsibilities of each party. A parenting plan outlines how parents will share time with their children. A Lakeland parenting plan must contain, among other things, a time-sharing schedule, a detailed outline of parental responsibilities, and the communication methods the parents will use to communicate with the child(ren). In Florida, parents are encouraged to collaboratively create their own parenting plan, which the court can review and approve. If parents cannot agree on a parenting plan or if they agree to a plan that the court does not approve, the court can then intervene and establish a plan based on the child’s best interests. Negotiating a parenting plan is usually not an easy process. However, when parents are able to negotiate a parenting plan on their own, they might find that they can create a plan custom-made to suit their family’s needs. The following are some tips for negotiating a Lakeland parenting plan that works for everyone involved.
- Understand the Legal Requirements
The first step to negotiating a Lakeland parenting plan is understanding the state’s legal requirements for parenting plans. Under Florida law, at a minimum, a parenting plan must contain the following information;
- How the daily tasks for raising their child(ren) will be shared between the parents
- Who will be responsible for healthcare and school-related matters
- A schedule detailing when the child(ren) will be with each parent
- How the parents will communicate with the child(ren)
You also need to understand that the primary consideration in Florida parenting plans is the best interests of the child(ren). The court cannot approve a plan that is not centered around the child(ren)’s best interests.
- Be Calm and Polite
While your relationship with the other parent may have ended on a bad note, you need to maintain your composure and work together for the sake of your child(ren). Remain calm and polite throughout the process. Letting your emotions control you could make the process longer and more complicated.
- Be Willing to Compromise
Flexibility is key to creating a workable parenting plan. Therefore, identify what is important to you and realize that you may need to make compromises. For instance, if the other parent has a demanding work schedule, consider accommodating their availability as long as you still have enough time with your child(ren).
- Be Open To Different Ideas
Don’t get caught up in wanting things to go a particular way. Be open to different ideas that would serve your child(ren)’s well-being.
- Listen to the Other Parent
As much as you have things to say, so does your child(ren)’s other parent. Take time to listen to the other parent. Do not interrupt them while they are talking. Only respond after they are done speaking, and you have understood what they have said. Listening to the other parent fosters mutual understanding and cooperation.
Contact Our Lakeland Parenting Plan & Timesharing Lawyer
Our Lakeland parenting plan & timesharing attorney at Darla K. Snead, P.L., can help protect your rights and the rights and well-being of your child. Contact us today to schedule a consultation.
